This WAHM has been whammed.
I have had several folks ask me about the whole WAHM thing. I have mixed emotions, which is why I have not written about it, but anyone who talks to me off-blog has heard much about this subject. *waves furiously at her sister Jill* On the one hand, I am glad that I can contribute to this - I am perfectly suited for what I am currently working on and have created some efficient processes that have been key to our initital success.
I only want to stay home with my kids right now and in the first place, I did not need this extra validation that so-called "working" provides. Truthfully, I felt perfectly validated being "just a stay at home mom." I don't particularly enjoy being torn between finishing work things up and having to tell a certain little 2.5 year old pixie that she will have to wait until later to tell me ALL about the "species of dinosaur bones that lives in the DIRT. IN THE DIRT, MAMA!" Or when a certain 4 year old desperately needs to know RIGHT NOW what in the hell a compognathus eats for his dinner and I have to wave him off for a bit. Or during any of the other instances where they are being utterly adorable and patient with the fact that I am hanging out in my office
Does it hurt them that they are not getting my full attention? No. Not really. Believe it or not, they have a father. Shocking, yet true. I am not the Virgin Mary. However, it hurts me, when I have to say "Not right now."
They are little, but not for long. This fall, Arun begins pre-K which is Beginning of the End of their time with me. They will be in school full-time before I know it and I will have so much time for myself, my head will spin. As much as I would prefer to be back in our normal routine, I know in my heart that this is permanent and that the old routine will never come to pass again. So, now that the December Holiday Rush is over, I am creating a new routine for us. And it will be okay, I am sure.
What this working thing has done for me is that I was forced to prioritize and recognize what was truly important to my personal well-being.
Knitting? Went by the wayside.
Television? My viewing is WAY down, which is probably not a bad thing.
Writing this blog? Sure, if I could fit it in.
Reading blogs? I did keep up on all of my real and imaginary friendships.
Oddly enough, Facebook/Twitter became a little more important - I have found Facebook an exceedingly convenient way to keep up with my family and friends and I appreciate it more than ever now. I am still not overly impressed with Twitter, realistically it is just a massive, public message board comprised of 140 character soundbytes that lack all of the nuances of conversation. However, I do use it as a convenient way to feed my Facebook status. For me, Facebook is where the real conversation threads can take place since it handles conversations much, much better than Twitter could ever dream.
But the most important of all to my mental health was exercise and reading books - I found myself getting very organized so that I could schedule those sorts of things into my day. I read more books and exercised more often in December than in November simply because I needed to stay sane and those two activities ground me.
The WAHM thing is probably here to stay. I am not necessarily happy about that, but I am grateful that Manoj and I can work our schedules and alternate childcare so that the kids don't have to be stuck in daycare. And yes, I am more than a little proud of my contributions to this new venture. I would be a lying McLiar who lies if I lied otherwise.
In other news, I have been feeling extremely apologetic about posting Snapgifts content here. However, I am going to have to get over that and soon. This is our business, our future and we are on the cusp of truly exciting ventures with this. I will try to make the content readable, something interesting to peruse other than statements like "snapgifts! snapgifts! git yer gift cardz heeeeeere!" Know what I mean?
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